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T O P I C R E V I E Wcreative_charismatic_caprwell as gloria made it crystal clear that im not exactly wanted here, im leaving linda land... if i offended anyone in any which way i sincerely appologisecreative_charismatic_caprand another thing, i do believe linda wanted everyone to search for answers to any questions they posed... thats all i did... but i guess since my search is being ridiculed i guess its time for me to leaveif any one still feels like contacting me my email address is as follows:karan_randhawa2002@yahoo.compixelpixieI am sorry, did I miss something?I don't know what went on, but surely you are not so sensitive that one person would prevent you from learning and sharing along with everyone? What do you do in any other situation where you must stay, and not run?Just curious, do as you must..... But c'mon, not everyone is agreeable at all times, maybe in the morning it will seem less urgent. Good luck to you.. now I have to go find the big issue!pixelpixieoh, that?Relax hon, she was just pointing out that no matter how anyone worded it you still wanted more info. Well, in order to get it, search for yourself, learn your traits better and keep researching and growing.. you can do alot of it here... some of us are harsh some of the time, but we all have good intentions, all like to have fun, and most of us tease. Take it wih a grain of salt! I have had my panties in a bunch and defended imaginary monsters.... as anyone has, but to leave is just silly. Try to be patient and realize we are all learning, no matter how advanced we are... keep it in perspective. Some of the things you asked you could know on an intrinsic level,but most is speculation... who really knows until you are in that situation.. I didn't look at your chart, but heard Venus and Mars squaring Saturn...indicating lovemaking problems ( remember---indicate, not set-in-stone) But if Mars and Venus are conjunct, that is a good sign, sexually. Keep a look out for good links around here, I have always seen valuable ones from the wonderful peeps here. Keep in mind the tone as well, you don't 'know us' but if you did, you'd see we are a bunch of loons alot of the time... in a really really good way!pidauaI think what we sometimes see here is a difference in communication brought about by different native languages. I am currently working on a business venture with an Indian company. I have found that they are extremely "In your face". It is not that they intend to be derogatory or confrontational as much as it is just a cultural difference. I have had to explain to my contact that he MUST slow down and stop being so aggressive in his constant need to get my attention. I have also noticed the same 'urgency' and somewhat..oh what is the right word...politically incorrect manner in Archer and a few others posting from India. So, I think we need to 1) counsel them on the proper etiquitte and 2) take what they say with a grain of salt because there is a difference in tempo and word structure due to their culture. It is no different that being exposed to people from other countries. Here in America, we have various rules of engagement, such as body space, touching, eye contact...etc. Growing up in So cal, I remember the first time I worked closely with a young Vietnamese lady. She was a 'Close talker' and was always touching me and spinning around me..I called her a Spatzy Bird LOL...then she just about lost her head, by me, when she pulled a sandwich from my hands to 'take a bite'. It was very acceptable in her culture to do that, but very unacceptable in mine. We both had to learn, she was fortunate that she didn't lose a limb though LOLEven here in the US we have major differences. Like here in the East, you CANNOT have more than one foot of space between you and the person in line in front of you. If you do someone will cut in. I have had it happen to me and I watch it all the time. It is just more aggressive out here. Now in the western states, if you do that you will get knocked upside the head. We have a large zone of space around us and we respect that. If we want to know if you are in line..we ask...we don't just walk in front of you like you don't exist LOL..Anyway, Archer and Creative cappy, please bring it down a few notches. Thank you. lllogI guess that I missed that string too. I think that at times we all take ourselves to seriously, I know that I do. Although I don't get my panties in a knot, my boxers get twisted at times. Lets all chill out and relax a bit.LannysthenriPidua, I have noticed I need about three feet around me at all times, but I allow others only a few inches of space if they draw away from me, funny. I have studied, time and space in other cultures and you are right, there is another mindset. I heard a wonderful saying today:There are three sides to every story:His versionHer versionand the truth.Life is too short to argue on the same point.Everyone has their own "truth" and way of living. in some cultures, time has no meaning, events that happened 30 years ago are considered current, but events that happened yesterday are not recognized.I was with a Cappy recently with a Scorp Moon and he was very much in my space. I recognize that it's different in my "culture" now and do not take offense, I used to get very upset and I noticed he did act upset when I drew back. I think it just takes some getting used to other cultures like you said. I also have found that some people act one way and are really not upset, they are only showing what they feel because it's the expected response, when it's not returned they are confused or disturbed by my "meaning".I do not recognize responses that are not emotional because I do not respect them, and so sometimes I push for a bigger response. It's unavoidable. If that happens with me, I recommend reacting emotionally just a little to let me know you do not understand me. I will respond eventually.Caps are very sensitive people and can get cranky or soft and mushy on a dime. Capricorn is the cardinal earth sign. I always seem to insult Caps my mistake, you Caps have to recognize that others do care, but we show it differently. Gloria was showing she cared in her Libra way.There are as many ways to show caring as there are stars in the sky.That can be bad or good depending on your mood. At least we are talking about caring and not arguing, Creative Cap has mistaken caring for rejection. One day hopefully he will see what Shakespeare (Taurus) meant when he said:How do I love thee?Let me count the ways.....Nothing else is that open ended. Eventually if there are enough good feelings, those good feelings will come around to everyone. There is enough for everyone on earth.NatashaTaurusArcherpixelpixie is right. stay. look at me...from N to archer...the journey continues.------------------broken arrow!Carlo sthenriLeave it to a Virgo to speak the unvarnished truth, you have a good memory Carlo.NatashaTaurusnoreenzVirgo Carlo-Takes alot to make a Virgo "spit it like that" lolfrom one Virgo to another -Bottom Line Baby, lay it all out!Not commenting on the situation at all, I don't know the history, I just know it takes me alot before I "spit nails" too funnynoreenzVirgo Carlo-Takes alot to make a Virgo "spit it like that" lolfrom one Virgo to another -Bottom Line Baby, lay it all out!Not commenting on the situation at all, I don't know the history, I just know it takes me alot before I "spit nails" too funnysilverbells I have noticed that people around here are less sensitive to the feelings of others than they were when I first came here. I did think at the time that some of us were masking the truth of ourselves in favor of "being loving" or something along those lines, which may not be desirable.Sometimes, the way that things are phrased can be offensive and hurtful and a big part of the problem is when the offended parties are being chastised (sp?) for having hurt feelings. it is not for someone else to say whether or not someone is justified in being hurt. If someone has "thin skin" it is not their responsibility to build up some sort of resistance or pretend that they are not offended when they are. Some people are more sensitive, and they are that way for a reason...I just wish that people would stop making comments like "don't you think that you are being a little sensitive?". Feelings are not rationalized away or even always expained rationally.Anyway, culture does account for a lot of the misunderstandings; here and out in the world and...well it's already been said.P.S. I am not making any reference to anyone in this thread. I am only addressing something that I think needs to be addressed. It might be a tad abstractly related to this thread but it is very much related.------------------"Get some Love in your groove, just get hip to Forgive"-Michael Franks4evagOObAS A LIBRAN............I must except the opinions of all that have shared it on this subject..... but isnt it a bit above and beyond the principal of this site.......I MEAN.....if you want attention whats the best way to do it?POST A TOPIC, "quote" not post a reply but a TOPIC on the matter of which you are concerned. "You all", WHEN NEEDED, post a relevant topic to share or ask for wisdom, thus, creating interest from another when entering that forum.....SO... if i was personally looking for a bit of advice or support or even a shoulder to cry on I would do exactly the the same...... HOWEVER.. i havent or wouldnt or even contemplate that i should put it on a forum to which it has no relavence..........for me it is WEAK to do such an act and for anyone to take a persons side that would do such an act is WRONG as well........from my computer i can see 18 forums, of which none ask the person for its fairwell swansong, BUT if i were crying and in need of attention then i would have to put it on the busiest one "ASTROLOGY"............now, how many of you readers or users of this website and answer "HONESTLY", come here to learn such wisdom or accept its moral principals..... for are thou not right to understand and except that we will always be not understood (LINDA)........ Without MORAL AND ETHICAL values that are true and within (Jupiter supplies)and within the right of others, can we impart our thoughts and except their comments and knowledge from which they have taken time in which to interpret for another...... we may not always be right, but if we dont try to understand than in the true words of Linda "how do we expect to be understood".......i saw a post earlier whether its the one in question i dont know, but Natasha only give an interpretation what she felt right and in her explanation she gave her very own time and wisdom to help a hungry reader (hungry in terms of thirst for knowledge).... however, if she knew that she were far more advanced than he then she may of tried to explain it clearer, but no explanation of understanding from the "hungry seeker" of their knowledge and an ABRUBT reply to follow as if to say if you cant give me what i want to know then "you will or not at all"..........for is the question desired by the "HUNGRY SEEKER" not, when will i meet my "soul mate"? I MEAN of all the questions you could ask, HOW COULD IT BE THIS ONE? for if the "hungry seeker" had read Linda's works or even contemplated the full meaning of the subject that was providing or is providing so much wisdom in his life, then would he have asked such a question?....... NO, NO, NO, NO WAY would he, for if the person has not been able to "comprehend the self", then how may they or expect any other to "comprehend the outcome of their future"..... the best reader (fortune-teller) around can only give an insight to what will happen, but, how can you live the fortune you were told, if your MORALS, ETHICS and UNDERSTANDING of self were not there.......Sorry for going on peeps, but things must be said... for if you were coming here for the 1st time and were at that stage of knowing and read certain posts, wouldnt you think again, because i did and i thought whether to come back from last time, but "I KNOW" with all of your hearts desires and longing for what is divine that you can only do your best, and that is what counts, for your best is somebodies higher understanding, and their education will give you appreciation and not a feeling of why did i bother, because of the "HUNGRY SEEKER" and his MORALS and VALUES of "YOUR" shared wisdom for his selfish longing..........4evagOOb............"love and light to everyone that sees its magic, for it is the magic you share that makes the light shine on true love" 4evagOOb 19/2/04 pixelpixie*sigh* I love Libras
if any one still feels like contacting me my email address is as follows:
karan_randhawa2002@yahoo.com
I am currently working on a business venture with an Indian company. I have found that they are extremely "In your face". It is not that they intend to be derogatory or confrontational as much as it is just a cultural difference. I have had to explain to my contact that he MUST slow down and stop being so aggressive in his constant need to get my attention.
I have also noticed the same 'urgency' and somewhat..oh what is the right word...politically incorrect manner in Archer and a few others posting from India. So, I think we need to 1) counsel them on the proper etiquitte and 2) take what they say with a grain of salt because there is a difference in tempo and word structure due to their culture.
It is no different that being exposed to people from other countries. Here in America, we have various rules of engagement, such as body space, touching, eye contact...etc. Growing up in So cal, I remember the first time I worked closely with a young Vietnamese lady. She was a 'Close talker' and was always touching me and spinning around me..I called her a Spatzy Bird LOL...then she just about lost her head, by me, when she pulled a sandwich from my hands to 'take a bite'. It was very acceptable in her culture to do that, but very unacceptable in mine. We both had to learn, she was fortunate that she didn't lose a limb though LOL
Even here in the US we have major differences. Like here in the East, you CANNOT have more than one foot of space between you and the person in line in front of you. If you do someone will cut in. I have had it happen to me and I watch it all the time. It is just more aggressive out here. Now in the western states, if you do that you will get knocked upside the head. We have a large zone of space around us and we respect that. If we want to know if you are in line..we ask...we don't just walk in front of you like you don't exist LOL..
Anyway, Archer and Creative cappy, please bring it down a few notches. Thank you.
Lanny
There are three sides to every story:His versionHer versionand the truth.
Life is too short to argue on the same point.
Everyone has their own "truth" and way of living. in some cultures, time has no meaning, events that happened 30 years ago are considered current, but events that happened yesterday are not recognized.
I was with a Cappy recently with a Scorp Moon and he was very much in my space. I recognize that it's different in my "culture" now and do not take offense, I used to get very upset and I noticed he did act upset when I drew back. I think it just takes some getting used to other cultures like you said. I also have found that some people act one way and are really not upset, they are only showing what they feel because it's the expected response, when it's not returned they are confused or disturbed by my "meaning".
I do not recognize responses that are not emotional because I do not respect them, and so sometimes I push for a bigger response. It's unavoidable. If that happens with me, I recommend reacting emotionally just a little to let me know you do not understand me. I will respond eventually.
Caps are very sensitive people and can get cranky or soft and mushy on a dime. Capricorn is the cardinal earth sign. I always seem to insult Caps my mistake, you Caps have to recognize that others do care, but we show it differently. Gloria was showing she cared in her Libra way.
There are as many ways to show caring as there are stars in the sky.That can be bad or good depending on your mood. At least we are talking about caring and not arguing, Creative Cap has mistaken caring for rejection. One day hopefully he will see what Shakespeare (Taurus) meant when he said:
How do I love thee?Let me count the ways.....
Nothing else is that open ended. Eventually if there are enough good feelings, those good feelings will come around to everyone. There is enough for everyone on earth.
NatashaTaurus
------------------broken arrow!
Takes alot to make a Virgo "spit it like that" lol
from one Virgo to another -Bottom Line Baby, lay it all out!
Not commenting on the situation at all, I don't know the history, I just know it takes me alot before I "spit nails" too funny
Sometimes, the way that things are phrased can be offensive and hurtful and a big part of the problem is when the offended parties are being chastised (sp?) for having hurt feelings. it is not for someone else to say whether or not someone is justified in being hurt. If someone has "thin skin" it is not their responsibility to build up some sort of resistance or pretend that they are not offended when they are. Some people are more sensitive, and they are that way for a reason...I just wish that people would stop making comments like "don't you think that you are being a little sensitive?". Feelings are not rationalized away or even always expained rationally.
Anyway, culture does account for a lot of the misunderstandings; here and out in the world and...well it's already been said.
P.S. I am not making any reference to anyone in this thread. I am only addressing something that I think needs to be addressed. It might be a tad abstractly related to this thread but it is very much related.------------------"Get some Love in your groove, just get hip to Forgive"-Michael Franks
I must except the opinions of all that have shared it on this subject..... but isnt it a bit above and beyond the principal of this site.......
I MEAN.....
if you want attention whats the best way to do it?
POST A TOPIC, "quote" not post a reply but a TOPIC on the matter of which you are concerned. "You all", WHEN NEEDED, post a relevant topic to share or ask for wisdom, thus, creating interest from another when entering that forum.....
SO... if i was personally looking for a bit of advice or support or even a shoulder to cry on I would do exactly the the same......
HOWEVER.. i havent or wouldnt or even contemplate that i should put it on a forum to which it has no relavence..........
for me it is WEAK to do such an act and for anyone to take a persons side that would do such an act is WRONG as well........from my computer i can see 18 forums, of which none ask the person for its fairwell swansong, BUT if i were crying and in need of attention then i would have to put it on the busiest one "ASTROLOGY"............
now, how many of you readers or users of this website and answer "HONESTLY", come here to learn such wisdom or accept its moral principals..... for are thou not right to understand and except that we will always be not understood (LINDA)........
Without MORAL AND ETHICAL values that are true and within (Jupiter supplies)and within the right of others, can we impart our thoughts and except their comments and knowledge from which they have taken time in which to interpret for another...... we may not always be right, but if we dont try to understand than in the true words of Linda "how do we expect to be understood".......
i saw a post earlier whether its the one in question i dont know, but Natasha only give an interpretation what she felt right and in her explanation she gave her very own time and wisdom to help a hungry reader (hungry in terms of thirst for knowledge).... however, if she knew that she were far more advanced than he then she may of tried to explain it clearer, but no explanation of understanding from the "hungry seeker" of their knowledge and an ABRUBT reply to follow as if to say if you cant give me what i want to know then "you will or not at all"..........
for is the question desired by the "HUNGRY SEEKER" not, when will i meet my "soul mate"?
I MEAN of all the questions you could ask, HOW COULD IT BE THIS ONE? for if the "hungry seeker" had read Linda's works or even contemplated the full meaning of the subject that was providing or is providing so much wisdom in his life, then would he have asked such a question?....... NO, NO, NO, NO WAY would he, for if the person has not been able to "comprehend the self", then how may they or expect any other to "comprehend the outcome of their future"..... the best reader (fortune-teller) around can only give an insight to what will happen, but, how can you live the fortune you were told, if your MORALS, ETHICS and UNDERSTANDING of self were not there.......
Sorry for going on peeps, but things must be said... for if you were coming here for the 1st time and were at that stage of knowing and read certain posts, wouldnt you think again, because i did and i thought whether to come back from last time, but "I KNOW" with all of your hearts desires and longing for what is divine that you can only do your best, and that is what counts, for your best is somebodies higher understanding, and their education will give you appreciation and not a feeling of why did i bother, because of the "HUNGRY SEEKER" and his MORALS and VALUES of "YOUR" shared wisdom for his selfish longing..........
4evagOOb............
"love and light to everyone that sees its magic, for it is the magic you share that makes the light shine on true love" 4evagOOb 19/2/04
I love Libras
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